A male friend once asked me if it was okay to flirt with a girl after she got married. I told him not only was it okay, it was downright necessary. A short time later he made some rather libidinous insinuations, and it kind of freaked me out. I haven't talked to him since. As a matter of fact, no one has flirted with me since then except for my husband and my son. But they flirt with everybody.